1. There is no formula. Each individual has a journey. Your journey at one point may be different than at other points. In the Bishop's list, he reminded us that The Church captures truths with formulas - 10 commandments, 3 in the Trinity, etc. So, he says that to follow Lent, one must simply follow the formula of prayer fasting, and giving. But our journey is a not a math class. It is a series of highs and lows, not a series of situations and operating rules for each.
2. Lent is a time of prayer. It goes without saying that if Lent is a time of drawing closer, one would need to speed time praying, right? That is communicating with God. What should you pray? How would I know? Speaking only for myself, I pray throughout the day in various ways. There are times of praise for specific things, and times of seeking answers. I pray for others and for myself.
3. Lent is a time of listening. It's one thing to pray, to tell God your thoughts, to ask questions, and pray for others. But unless you also stop and listen... wait... then your prayers are missing a necessary component. Listen to your own heart as well.
4. Lent is a time of focused discipline. Some people fast during Lent or give things up.Occasionally, they do this and it doesn't seem to matter, other than they gave something up. Some sin as a form of penance, which was how it was done originally. They do this to avoid things that take them away from God (playing games rather than studying scriptures?) They might be doing this because they feel guilty - a self-imposed time out. This discipline could be a positive thing doing more, not less. For instance, you might exercise more. You might decide you're going to do your chores without being reminded or visit shut-ins. That is why I think of New Year's resolutions when thinking of Lent. But it only matters if during this time, you turn towards Christ. Sure, it's a good thing to take care of yourself, but it's just for your health, not for Lent, if God isn't involved.
5. Lent reminds us of our weaknesses. During Lent, as we focus on the goodness of Christ and the mercy and grace of God, we think of our short-comings. As you think of the suffering of Christ, it's about letting the un-Christ-like moments of your life be overcome. This soul searching and feeling weak is like being a wild horse. Once the horse is finally broken, and gives in, then someone can ride it. It is only after dying to self, that we are most useful to God, and ready to do His work on earth. Try to see yourself not as the weaknesses you see but with the potential and perfection that God sees in you.
6. Lent is about giving. Many think in terms of money when they think of giving. Yes, money is useful and can provide many good things. But there is more to giving than providing money. In addition, we are expected to donate our time and our talents. You were given gifts, various abilities that could make a difference to others. Giving of your time means allowing others to benefit from your gifts as you share them. It is also about giving away "stuff." The clutter of your life does nothing for you, but might be exactly what someone else needs.
7. Lent is a starting point. Finally, it is important to realize that there is life after Lent. What starts at Lent may develop into a life's mission, or at least, a good habit. If you see a "big picture" need that you are led to work on, realize that it's quite possible that you aren't expected to get it all finished by Lent. Life is a journey that goes on. God may have put a long term, lifetime, mission on your heart. Don't do too much and get burned out or get frustrated and give up in despair.. You may be lead in many directions but life doesn't end at Easter. Start with one aspect, knowing that hopefully, you have many years, many Lents, to continue your work.
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